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Back in the late 90s and early aughts, it was commonplace to hear the internet referred to as “The Information Superhighway,” a term that for many of us connoted not just speed of transfer, but the relatively unfettered regulatory environment surrounding what was then an emerging network for communications and commerce.
Fast forward to 2026 and those heady days of rapid growth and regulatory permissiveness are gone. Some might say “good riddance,” but I can’t help but wonder what we’re losing as we grope for ways to make the web ‘safer’ for a population who arguably shouldn’t be using it, at all.
During an adult industry trade event over 20 years ago, an attorney friend of mine posed a good question: If the web is the “information superhighway,” who in their right mind would want to build a playground for children in the median of such a thoroughfare?
The answer, then and now, is: “Far too many people.” Crucially, a significant subset of those people are legislators, national, state and local. And these days, every time you turn around, one of them is sponsoring, writing or endorsing a measure like the Kids Internet and Digital Safety (KIDS) Act, or the Innocence Act, or some manner of tax directed specifically at adult websites.
I can’t speak for the populations of other countries, but here in the U.S., what I’ve noticed over the decades is many people look to the government to handle jobs they probably ought to be doing themselves – or indeed, that it’s only possible for them to do for themselves.
Look, I get it; it’s hard raising kids. But the difficulty of being a parent is not a new thing – and it certainly isn’t limited to the internet era. When I was kid, way back in the early 1970s, once I left the immediate vicinity of my parents’ home, they had almost no way of knowing what I was up to – a worrying fact for a lot of parents, especially during times when panics over child abductions and general “stranger danger” were in full swing.
Was it easier for my parents to watch me walk off to catch the school bus back when I couldn’t text to confirm my arrival at school than it is for parents these days to do the same, when their kids have dozens of options for checking in or marking themselves “safe”? I think that’s a tough argument to make.
Yes, largely because of the internet and related technologies, kids today have easier access to things like porn than I did when I was a kid. Guess what? Even in the days when we had to go digging through our fathers’ sock drawers to find porn, we still managed to find it. (Where there’s a hormone-fueled will, there is always a way.)
Of course, the impulse to restrict and regulate access to content deemed to be beyond the years of kids is a lot older than the internet, too. They seem almost quaint now, but broadcast decency standards have been around for decades. Does anyone believe these standards have prevented kids from hearing “profane language” or being exposed to content that is “patently offensive” but does not rise to the point of being “obscene” under federal law? If so, I have a healthy store of bridges on hand to sell to these poor, credulous souls.
Yes, the internet is filled with problematic content. But if your concern about what kids stumble across online is limited to “obscene” or “indecent” content, then you’re either ignorant of what lurks online, or the nature of your concern says more about you than it does the internet.
One thing about the internet has not changed since the days when it was common to call it the Information Superhighway: It remains an enormous network of independently operated computers, on which virtually anyone can publish virtually anything. Mixed in to that ‘everything’ is a long list of things that are potentially “harmful to minors.”
Are sites that promote racial hatred less damaging to minors than pornography? How about sites that disseminate misinformation and disinformation? Are false medical claims something we want kids to be perusing with no guidance or guardrails? How about deepfake videos of a war in progress?
Don’t get me wrong: Not for one minute am I suggesting all those things listed above should be subject to governmental blocking, censorship or over-regulation to prevent their spread. What I’m suggesting – and what I’ve been telling my less-wired friends for literal decades – is simply this: The internet isn’t for children, and it simply can’t be made “safe” for them, try as we might.
The difficult fact is, even if every proposed measure to limit kids’ access to “harmful” content currently under consideration is passed and vigorously enforced, the internet will remain as I described it above – “an enormous network of independently operated computers, on which virtually anyone can publish virtually anything.” To make it ‘safe’ will require fundamentally altering the nature of that network and siloing it to a degree where it will no longer be recognizable as the internet.
And guess what? Even if we do that, you’ll still have to parent your kids. You’ll still have to shepherd them through their early years – and you’ll still have to let go of being a shepherd when they become adults. The internet age didn’t change any of that, either.
If you believe the answer will come from the government, if you believe legislation like the KIDS Act or the Innocence Act will make the world (or even just the internet) a substantially safer place, knock yourself out. Write to your representatives and demand that they pass those laws – and then see what happens.
I’ll tell you what isn’t going to happen: Your job as a parent isn’t going to get easier. The sooner you accept that and get on with the difficult business of raising a child, the better.
